[Doriana] How many roads

[Doriana]

Ryan (H/A/M) asked Nina (H/A/F) a question. Nina took it as a compliment, but to me it revealed that Ryan hadn't been paying attention.

[AlbatrossLover]

Does this happen in an acedemic setting? Is Nina a teacher?

Did Nina misunderstand Ryan's question? Did she assume it was a rhetorical question when it wasn't? Did she answer it in the way Ryan expected her to?

Did he ask her the question in person? Relevant?

[trebor]

Were you present when the question was asked? When it was answered? Is Zoom relevant? Are Ryan and Nina still alive? Are they historical figures? Are they coworkers of yours? Co-students with you? Are they coworkers of each other? Are either of them related to you? Do you know them personally?

Is the question to do with work?

[Doriana]

AlbatrossLover
Does this happen in an acedemic setting? Yesish, but beware of FA Is Nina a teacher? No

Did Nina misunderstand Ryan's question? No Did she assume it was a rhetorical question when it wasn't? No Did she answer it in the way Ryan expected her to? Irrel

Did he ask her the question in person? Yes Relevant? Yes for context

trebor
Were you present when the question was asked? When it was answered? Yes to both Is Zoom relevant? No - this happened face-to-face, but the same situation could arise in a Zoom call Are Ryan and Nina still alive? Yes Are they historical figures? No Are they coworkers of yours? Nina is Co-students with you? Are they coworkers of each other? Are either of them related to you? No to these Do you know them personally? Yes

Is the question to do with work? Yes

[GalFisk]

Did she take it as a compliment to her: looks? Skills? Actions? Personality? Did he know she took it as a compliment? Did he intend for her to take it that way? Not paying attention to: her? Someone else? Something else? Something said? Written? An action? Was he expected to pay attention? Was he in the process of learning something? Was she teaching something? Showing something? Making a point? A presentation? Were other people also expected to pay attention?

[Doriana]

Did she take it as a compliment to her: looks? This Skills? Actions? Personality? Did he know she took it as a compliment? Yes Did he intend for her to take it that way? No Not paying attention to: her? This Someone else? Something else? Something said? And this Written? An action? Was he expected to pay attention? Yes Was he in the process of learning something? Was she teaching something? Showing something? Making a point? A presentation? No to all Were other people also expected to pay attention? The only other person in this situation was me, and I'd say yes

[GalFisk]

Was it a question about: her looks? Work? What she just said? Relevant why he wasn't paying attention?

[Mimino]

Was the question meant seriously? (i.e. did he expect an honest and informative answer?) or, rather, a colloquial question, like "how are you"?
Did Ryan know the answer before asking? Did he expect a specific answer?
Did something Nina said or did before already imply the answer to this question?
If Ryan had paid more attention, would he not have asked this question? would have asked a different question?
Were Ryan and Nina in a 1:1 conversation?

[Doriana]

Was it a question about: her looks? Only indirectly Work? Yes What she just said? No Relevant why he wasn't paying attention? No

Was the question meant seriously? Yes (i.e. did he expect an honest and informative answer?) or, rather, a colloquial question, like "how are you"?
Did Ryan know the answer before asking? Did he expect a specific answer? No to both
Did something Nina said or did before already imply the answer to this question? Yes
If Ryan had paid more attention, would he not have asked this question? would have asked a different question? Both are possible
Were Ryan and Nina in a 1:1 conversation? I was also included in the conversation

[GalFisk]

Relevant what her job is? His? Yours? Do you all have the same kind of job? Are her looks related to her job? Is her face relevant? Hair? Clothing?

[Doriana]

Relevant what her job is? His? Yours? For all three: The exact jobs are irrelevant, but something about her and my jobs is relevant Do you all have the same kind of job? Nina and I have similar but relevantly not the same jobs, he has a different job Are her looks related to her job? Only indirectly Is her face relevant? Hair? Clothing? All could be relevant, but probably mostly her face

[GalFisk]

Natural facial features relevant? Makeup? Some specific part of the face? Smiling? When he was not paying attention, was she speaking to: both of you? Only him? Did she relevantly ask anything? Was what she said related to looks in any way? If so, his? Her own? Yours?

[Doriana]

Natural facial features relevant? Probably mainly this Makeup? Some specific part of the face? Smiling? When he was not paying attention, was she speaking to: both of you? Only him? Mainly him Did she relevantly ask anything? No Was what she said related to looks in any way? If so, his? Her own? Yours? No to all

[Sundowner]

So, Nina, Ryan and you were in a conversation about a job-related topic?
Nina said something to Ryan? to him specifically? or maybe this was a lecture and Ryan one of the students?
Ryan asked Nina a question? which Nina took as a compliment? although it was not meant that way in the first place?
Nevertheless, she answered the question truthfully?
But Ryan could have already known what he asked, if he had paid more attention to what Nina had said before?
The compliment is related to Nina's looks? mainly to natural facial features of her?
Was the compliment related to Nina's eyes? nose? mouth? cheeks? teeth? hair? the face as a whole? her facial expression? her smile?

[Doriana]

So, Nina, Ryan and you were in a conversation about a job-related topic? Yes
Nina said something to Ryan? to him specifically? Yes to these or maybe this was a lecture and Ryan one of the students? No
Ryan asked Nina a question? which Nina took as a compliment? although it was not meant that way in the first place? Yes to all
Nevertheless, she answered the question truthfully? Yes, but her answer also made it clear that she had understood it as a compliment
But Ryan could have already known what he asked, if he had paid more attention to what Nina had said before? Yes
The compliment is related to Nina's looks? mainly to natural facial features of her? Not directly, but her looks probably played a role
Was the compliment related to Nina's eyes? nose? mouth? cheeks? teeth? hair? the face as a whole? her facial expression? her smile? None directly

[biograd]

Was the (inferred) compliment related to intelligence? physical fitness? hygiene? fashion/style sense? mood/emotional temperament?

(Guessing off the title ) Is wind related in any way? something being blown by the wind?

[Doriana]

Was the (inferred) compliment related to intelligence? physical fitness? Yope hygiene? fashion/style sense? mood/emotional temperament? No to rest

(Guessing off the title ) Is wind related in any way? something being blown by the wind? No

[GalFisk]

Does he ask about something she: is? Does? Enjoys? Is a double meaning relevant? Such as "working out" meaning physical exercise or methodically solving a problem?

[Doriana]

Does he ask about something she: is? This Does? Enjoys? Is a double meaning relevant? Such as "working out" meaning physical exercise or methodically solving a problem? No to rest

[Doriana]

RECAP: Ryan, Nina and I were having a work-related conversation. Ryan asked Nina a question that could be understood as a compliment about her looks, but the question didn't reference them directly. The question was about what she is (at work) and it showed that he hadn't paid attention to what Nina had said earlier.

[Sundowner]

Did the question start with "Are you .."?

[Doriana]

Did the question start with "Are you .."? Yes

[trebor]

Did she take it as a compliment because: she thought he had heard what she already said, and so was not asking about it? Because she thought he was distracted by her looks? Because she misunderstood the question? Is wordplay relevant?

Was he asking her about a project/task she was working on?

[Doriana]

Did she take it as a compliment because: she thought he had heard what she already said, and so was not asking about it? Because she thought he was distracted by her looks? Because she misunderstood the question? Is wordplay relevant? No to all

Was he asking her about a project/task she was working on? No, but OTRT

[Liquizt]

Do you have seniority at work over Nina? in a direct chain? immediate superior?
Do you have seniority at work over Ryan? in a direct chain? immediate superior?
Does Nina have seniority at work over you? in a direct chain? immediate superior?
Does Ryan have seniority at work over you? in a direct chain? immediate superior?
Does Nina have seniority at work over Ryan? in a direct chain? immediate superior?
Does Ryan have seniority at work over Nina? in a direct chain? immediate superior?

Was Ryan's question about Nina's job role? or presume her having a particular job role/responsibility? that she had? that you had?
Does Ryan's question (or the asking of it to Nina) presume something about the relative seniority of you and Nina?

Did Nina take the question as a compliment about her youth? experience? work ethic? health? self-presentation?
Would Nina still likely believe the question was a compliment if she recalled what she had said earlier? and believed Ryan to have heard it?

Did Ryan feel his question was answered by Nina's response? Did he understand she had taken it as a compliment?